Dating success comes easily to those women who know what work
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Dating success really comes easy when you know what works with men and dating. Understanding these tips is really the key to learning how to get his attention and get that guy.
#1 - The Right Attitude
The most important thing when it comes to dating guys is your attitude. You should have a positive attitude in every way and let him know your good side before showing him your mistakes. You need to get the message across that you value yourself if you want him to value you. That means you have to be willing to let him go if things don't go according to plan. In those unavoidable moments when he seems to be going backwards, the quickest way to lose him for good is not to let him go. Never cling to a man in despair because you don't want to be alone. If it doesn't feel right, don't get too emotional on him, back off and wait to see what happens. If you can keep a cool head, chances are he'll be back before you know it!
#2 - Get to know him first
Don't give yourself away to the first man that comes along. Dating is as much about eradicating the wrong one as it is about finding Mr Right. Don't confuse chemistry with love, compatibility, or dedication. Take the time to find out who he is and what he stands for BEFORE you allow yourself to get attached to him. Let him go early if he's not the one!
#3 - Don't commit too early
It's strange how women seem almost committed to a new relationship from day one. This doesn't necessarily have to be the case for a man. Men take much longer to make a decision about commitment, even though they will love having sex with you from day 1. Therefore, keep in mind that no matter what magic words come out of his mouth, he is not necessarily committed to you. If you commit early, you have all kinds of expectations that he may not be ready to fulfill yet and he will rebel against them. Hold on and take the time to see what he's willing to put into your relationship before you decide if he's the kind of guy you'd like to commit to.
#4 - Rate him
If you decide you want to keep him, focus on building the chemistry in your relationship by making it a fun, relaxing place for him. Don't get serious and needy. If you appreciate him and the things he does for you, he will feel good, which in turn will strengthen the bond between you. If you make him feel good, it means he wants to spend more time with you.
#5 - Words won't convince him
Don't have the conversation! Men don't respond to words in the same way as women. He will probably reject you and then wonder why you have to be so serious. He may even disappear from the scene altogether. See dating tip #4 for what to do to make sure he enjoys being in your company and wants more out of your relationship.
#6 - Don't let him get lazy
It's easy for a man to get lazy once he has his wife and is in his comfort zone. But you don't have to let him in. Again, the key to stopping this decline is to appreciate everything he does for you. If you don't bother him when he's doing something you want more of, he'll soon forget it. However, if you acknowledge and acknowledge his efforts, he will quickly become addicted to the praise and admiration he gets from you. The best time to start these habits is early in the dating. Stay impressed with his efforts if you don't want him to get lazy in your relationship.
#7 - Stay cool! Hold back!
Don't allow your negative emotional impulses to ruin your relationship. Dating can be a really tough time when we want something, but we're not always sure where we stand when we want to get it. It's not always easy to stay calm and sometimes it brings out our worst negative emotions. It is very important to learn to control these and not act impulsively in a new relationship. Don't let him turn you into a "rabbit cauldron"! Even if you're worried about losing him, if you can keep your cool, chances are you can keep him. Lose the plot and you will almost certainly lose the man.
#8 - Calling, texting and chasing guys
Do not do it! (at least not often). It's not that you can never call or text or chase a guy, but if you do it regularly and often, he will think that you are desperate and that you can become a source of irritation instead of pleasure in his life . My advice to you is to hold back and see if he's calling, texting, and chasing you. Then you will be told whether he wants to call you. Never call or text again if you haven't received an answer to your last message. This can really be a part of your dating life that can ruin your relationships if you're not careful about how you handle it
#9 - Be yourself, let him be himself
Okay, those are 2 tips, but important ones. First off, if you're not yourself then it's not real and won't work for long, right? Hold on, I hear you say, you've just given me a list of things I can and cannot do - how does that fit into being myself? Well, it's true that if you want to attract a great guy, you have to establish a healthy and stable personality while dating. If you are not that healthy and stable person underneath, then you will struggle to enter into a mature adult loving relationship. See dating tip #10 for more details.
Second, if you've only just met and you're already trying to change him, he's probably not the guy for you. If you can't love him the way he is, it probably won't work in the long run. While he can change, it's unlikely to suit you. Are you unrealistic or is it time to let him go? Also check out dating tip #10 below.
#10 - Rate Your Degree of Neediness
If you are not needy, you can usually get away with anything while dating and you will find it easy to meet and attract men. You don't need dating tips because you value yourself and are naturally aware of what works and what doesn't in relationships with others. Then you can really afford to be yourself.
What is neediness? Neediness is where you need constant emotional attention, affection, reassurance and validation from your partner. Needy women often chase and call men, get upset if they don't get enough attention, and would rather have an old relationship than be out of a relationship while waiting for a good man.
Relationships are important to most women and that's why many of us don't like being alone. When we meet a man, we often fail to acknowledge our own neediness and make excuses for him if he doesn't meet our expectations and for ourselves if we find that we need more than he currently gives. These dating tips will help us spot some of our more needy traits. When we become aware of what we do that doesn't work in relationships, we can start building more effective habits into our lives. That's when it all starts to fall into place and we become one of those women for whom dating and relationships just work effortlessly.
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